F. R. I. E. N. D. (S)

Only your real friends will tell you when your face is dirty.  ~Sicilian Proverb

here i quote this saying? Why getting Emotional now u may ask? because, Actually this didn't actually happened to me. It happens to a friend of a friend of mine. Ok. here's the thing? What is friendship? Being with you 24/7? praising you like a god? hanging out together only when times are bad. Is this what it's all about? 

easier said than done. What the problem actually? If we had friendship problems... Why do we have to fight to the end and never be together forever. ain't friendship supposed to last forever? 

geesh, here, some of the problems occured during friendships


1. TRUST
   Friendship was all about TRUST. we trust each other with secret. Ask yourself this question: 
 HAVE YOUR FRIEND TELL YOU ONE BIG SECRET AND YOU KNOW THE SECRET ONLY AFTER YOU PROMISE YOU'LL KEEP IT SAFE?


if the answer is YES. 


Have you really KEPT the secret? Or have u told someone else and want her/him to promise not to tell anybody? If u really kept it a secret. you are truly one of a kind. you're purely the BFF type. If you happened to tell someone else, even its your boyfriend/girlfriend... you sure have hurt her feelings if somedays she/he knows the secrets out.


if the answers is NO.


Means your beloved friend still... haven't trusted you this whole time. 


Trust is about being Honest to each other. You trust hin/her so much, you could fall from a buiding knowing she/he will be down there waiting to save you. If you're unsure, it's ok. maybe you just really yourself and not others. 


A friend is the only person you will let into the house when you are Turning Out Drawers.  ~Pam Brown



2. LIE


Have you lied to her? have you? If she's ugly. just tell her so. If she's fat, just say so. Don't lie. Lying makes everything even more worse. If you think you can't be around with her because of status.(this!) then, tell her so. Don't wait until you yourself being so depressed over it. Lying doesn't even make u a better friend. 


Lying about liking her boyfriend? or keeping her boyfriends secret or vise versa. damn, you're surely not a good friend. if you can lie about those, you must also be lying to yourself.

It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.  ~William Blake

3. Choosing Friends over Pleasure.

This..i can't even.. start. never ever happened to me yet. but, its been happened around me. and i saw this... on a very different perspective. If you had a moment where you were so happy with your friends.. and then suddenly, you notice, you're being 'used' and u don't have the ability to defend yourself, you back off from the friendship.. saying.. "hey, i got to go... finding my true self! good bye!" actually... its a good thing you do that. who doesn't ant to be succesful. But than again. Have you ever talk about this with your friend? what actually they've been thinking? no? indeed! have you ever think about their feelings? i guess not. so, the next time you do this to others... think MATURELY! they are humans. they have feelings tooo! 
(this always happens when you're in band/group of friends)


If a man does not make new acquaintances as he advances through life, he will soon find himself alone.  A man should keep his friendships in constant repair.  ~Samuel Johnson

ingat wahai teman. jangan tinggalkan teman.rezeki datang dan pergi. teman sejati akan sentiasa berada disisi.jangan terlalu pentingkan diri sendiri.bertindak gunakan akal yang diberi.  kalau tak merana dikemudian hari. walaupun kita menang atas usaha sendiri. siapa yang raikan bersama kita nanti? hanya diri sendiri. kan rugi dah hidup sendiri. sepi sampai termimpi-mimpi. wajah dan sokongan teman yang selama ini. diimpi-impi. 


sekian!


those photos are... well forget it!

I always love 5 people. you know who u are!

too many friend with too many attitude sure can u go crazy. just be calm. and u'll be ok! don't even have to kill urself. TALK to others. The world don't only revolves around u!

treasure the friendship, you'll need it one day~